Showing posts with label Surviving new workplace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Surviving new workplace. Show all posts

Monday, 7 April 2014

Taking internet too seriously...

Internet has been a medium for hermits to express their feelings to the world, mostly feelings of anger and hatred. It is a way for youngsters (mostly) to seek attention from the public be it in a good way or bad. For a long time it has been more harmful than useful, causing friendships and relationships to fall apart. And sometimes, nations.

It was the MH370 tragedy that inspired me to write this blog entry.

When I was first introduced to the internet, it was still a dial-up. The one where you connect your phone to the computer and dial 1515 and listen to the screeching and screaming of whatever it was on the line. In that limited speed, all I could do was go on mirc or icq to have 5 minute conversations with my classmates about homework. Or leave a long ass love mail to long distance boyfriends.

Technology took the highway when internet evolved too rapidly into the homes of every human being. We now live in a time where Myspace and Friendster was just a blur memory.

But 15 year old girls will always be 15 year old girls. Only back then in my generation, we didn't have facebook to express how we crave for attention. All I had was a diary kept safe and hidden in my old bedroom, and 15 years later I thank God that was all i had. Even though teens are allowed to feel lost, insecure and troubled, they seem to carry on being 15 even as they apporach 30. The desperate need to make an impact to the world becomes a priority. They would do anything to become famous, even if it means hurting and offending others.



MH370 was a sad tragedy than affected the whole nation. It showed the whole world who Malaysians are. One entry after another revealed the true attitude and mindset we have. It was indeed a dark era.

While there were hundreds of self pro-claimed aviation "experts" sharing thoughts and theories about what might had happened, there were also hundreds of bloggers (who mostly know nothing) who shared ideas and speculations; some leading to obvious lies and fairy tales. There were many ways people tried to share a little bit of fame from the mystery by posting photos, hoaxes and mocking 'bomohs' and political leaders. Accusations were thrown everywhere, causing people to start yelling at each other. Rumours where spread, creating false hope. Conspiracy theories haunted the minds of even the educated. The nation divided into speculators and believers, supporters and haters.



Before internet, everyone kept ideas to themselves. They had time to think whether they should say or not what they intended to say and most would decide to just let things go. They read valid and published news and articles and analyze quietly in their own deep thoughts. No one was offended. Life was peaceful and people were smarter.

But I guess, this is the era we live in. And since there's no changing it, we have to accept it. My job as an educator is to remind my students to be careful on what they post on the internet. To think ahead the impact of what they put up. To read their facebook status again and again through all perspective before hitting that send button. To think wisely and maturely... And most important, to not take internet too seriously... I may sound like a grandma but Internet is usually a place where I read Wikipedia and laugh at 9gag (and not to forget my online shopping and workmails...) Venting is just internet on a day off which is usually followed by regret.

Happy blogging people :)


Monday, 16 December 2013

Self Motivation : How to Survive in a New Workplace

Illustration by Andrew Joyner

Extracted From : Excelle's Website : Networking for the career-minded women

First day at a new workplace. in my case, AGAIN??? It was ONLY 3 pathetic years when I first reported duty in Politeknik Kota Kinabalu and today, once again I become the "new girl" in the office. So many people have been asking WHY i applied for a transfer since I was already so happy in the old polytechnic. Here's the thing... Get off my case, mind your own business! I do things for reason and I do not have to explain to everyone why, what or how.

So here's what I do in my first day : I google for survival tips. 

Everyone needs time to get settled in, find his or her place, learn the culture, speak the jargon, and know who’s who. Smile, ask lots of questions, write things down (especially names), and be patient. Understand that your new company or assignment may be very different from where you had worked before and is a world different from college life, even if you interned.

Try to understand and accept the differences. Never say, “When I was at my prior company, we did it differently.” I had one coworker who said that so often that the other employees suggested he go back to that firm. If somewhere else really did it better, slowly suggest some changes without saying where they came from and be sure they are better, not just more comfortable.
(Ok noted. Jangan gatal2 nak announce kat semua orang "dulu masa kat PKK, saya ni.. tetttttt...")

Network. Be professional. Observe. Find ways to get to know your coworkers. Join them for a coffee break. Put candy in a dish on your desk (I used to have a jar full of tootsie rolls). You’ll meet people as they stop by to have some. Attend meetings and learn how decisions are made. If there is a problem or serious issue going on, get involved.
(Hmm... I used to have chocolates and candies on my desk... So I guess it's a good idea...)

Spend time with each coworker as well as your boss to understand what they see as major challenges, strengths, weaknesses and opportunities. It will take time to win their respect so start earning it right away by listening.
(Urghh... tau tak saya ni pemalu..???)

While first impressions may be made in minutes they fade away just as easily. Impressions that last are the ones that count, and they don’t happen instantly. Those first day horrors will be something you will look back and laugh at in the years to come.
(Okay, remember Anne, you will survive. Hang in there and be strong. Be good. Be patient.)

Also, here are 10 tips to being the new girl at work as listed by http://shenow.org

1. Make the most of training
2. Take notes
3. Ask questions
4. Accept help from other people
5. Help someone
6. Prove your value
7. Use your transferable skills
8. Don’t be too hard on yourself
9. Be friendly
10. Be prepared

Okay... too long of a post. To be continued...